| Abraham (left) and Winston-I have to work harder for these smiles in their pics these days. |
Having the boys taking steps and learning to walk is in itself a huge change but they are also gaining a lot of new words. It thrills my heart when they say something clearly enough that I understand. Communication, blessed communication. It is hard when little ones cannot convey their needs and wants, so I am grateful that the boys are beginning to communicate with us. Abraham is very verbal and started repeating words back to us last week (not perfectly though, mind you). Winston started in on the fun as well when he saw how excited we would get about Abraham saying words. Abraham and Winston can now both say juice, poop (poo-poo), hat (at-huh), diaper (diap-uh), Bible (Bi-bo), cheese (chiz) and avocado (havaka). Abraham can also say, teeth, bubbles and book. Abraham and Winston will repeat the word thirsty (fursty). They can both say apple and doggie very clearly. They do not say my name, mama, very often but they are saying papa all the time now. Abraham is very effusive and and commanding when he uses his words. He repeats them again and again in order to make them sound correct. Winston is more quiet in his tone and will say things under his breath. Abraham will be saying something and I realize Winston is saying the same word just as clearly but not as loud. It's as though Winston's words are for himself. He has a very strong, independent streak so I think it is showing us he is his own man. Abraham feeds off the praise and excitedly shows off his learning. I am obviously thrilled that our twin boys are already so verbal since both boys and twins tend to behind on their speech. It is honestly hard keeping track of their words at this stage. I am trying to write down words as they repeat them and when they start using them on their own spontaneously but it changes by the day.
I had my first sort of conversation with Abraham. It went something like this:
Me: If you go poop in the toilet, you will get a cookie.
Abraham: Poo-poo tookie?!?
Me: Yes, if you go poop in the toilet you will get a cookie.
(After he accomplished the task)
Abraham: Tookie! tookie!
And trust me, if I do not get that cookie to him quickly enough, he will definitely express how he feels about it.
| Mr. Personality, my Abraham |
| He loves to find objects to slide across the floor so that he can speed crawl. |
Abraham has become more extroverted as of late and has a smile for whoever smiles at him. He is a talker and a wiggle worm. He loves looking at books and turning their pages. He has this look on his face most times that seems to say he is wanting to have fun and is excited. It is sweet seeing his infectious joy. He obviously loves his cookies and is very impressed with special treats. Eric says that he thinks Abraham is more like him.
This morning Winston was super cranky. I asked him if he was thirsty and wanted a drink. Once I brought him his cup, he said 'fursty.' I could see him light up with the realization that 'fursty' meant he would get a drink. Hopefully this will mean less tantrums and more talking. My kids never really caught on to baby sign language. I tried to be consistent enough that they would catch on but they just don't seem to like to do it. I constantly tell myself that each child is different and there is not a one size fits all approach.
| Winston-this kid is intense and serious and so is his smile. |
| Watch out world, he is on the move! |
| They are going to have a lot of pictures of them in the bath tub when they grow up. |
We are dealing with a lot of the normal toddler stuff like tantrums and not sharing. It is exhausting trying to referee them and try to help them understand empathy. It is hard because Winston has started to get very aggressive with Abraham (formerly vice versa) and will slap him in frustration or throw objects. Sigh. The boys are also cutting teeth like crazy. Winston is now at eleven teeth and Abraham has ten. They have several very close to coming in. I am telling myself we are just getting this stage out of the way and will hopefully have it wrapped up before they turn two.
Raising children has its highs and lows but it is the most wonderful job I could imagine having. We are immensely blessed.